The Blaque Scroll

Your Type Is Probably Your Trap We all say it like it’s gospel: "I just have a type.” We wear it like a badge of discernment, as if knowing what we like means we know what’s right for us. But most of the time, your “type” is not a reflection of divine design — it’s a mirror of your past, shaped by what broke you, what comforted you, or what your ego’s still trying to prove. We don’t pick our “type” by spirit. We pick it by pattern. And pattern is a powerful liar. 1. Familiarity Feels Like Safety — But It’s Usually a Cycle What we call attraction often isn’t chemistry. It’s recognition. You meet someone and think, “Something about them feels familiar.” That’s because it is. It’s a familiar wound, not a holy confirmation. Most people aren’t chasing partners, but instead they’re chasing patterns. Your “type” might look different each time, but the spirit is the same. And until you confront that, you’ll keep dating versions of the same person in different bodies. “As a dog returns to ...

“Dating is a ritual of confusion we learned to call normal.” - Me Think about it. We spend years practicing heartbreak disguised as “love.” We swipe, we match, we ghost, we flirt, we leave — and call it experience. Every breakup is a rehearsal for divorce. Every casual relationship teaches us detachment instead of devotion. Somewhere along the line, we forgot what Yahuah actually designed for man and woman. “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from Yahuah.” — Proverbs 18:22, NKJV Notice it doesn’t say girlfriend or companion for amusement. It says wife. He who finds a wife is stepping into covenant, into berith, into a union that mirrors Yahuah’s own relationship with His people. 1. When Dating Didn’t Exist Long before the term “dating” appeared, there was courtship — purposeful, accountable, sacred. A man didn’t “ask someone out” on a whim. He pursued with intention. A woman didn’t entertain endless options; she discerned a husband worthy of covenant. Families we...