Your Type Is Probably Your Trap
Your Type Is Probably Your Trap We all say it like it’s gospel: "I just have a type.” We wear it like a badge of discernment, as if knowing what we like means we know what’s right for us. But most of the time, your “type” is not a reflection of divine design — it’s a mirror of your past, shaped by what broke you, what comforted you, or what your ego’s still trying to prove. We don’t pick our “type” by spirit. We pick it by pattern. And pattern is a powerful liar. 1. Familiarity Feels Like Safety — But It’s Usually a Cycle What we call attraction often isn’t chemistry. It’s recognition. You meet someone and think, “Something about them feels familiar.” That’s because it is. It’s a familiar wound, not a holy confirmation. Most people aren’t chasing partners, but instead they’re chasing patterns. Your “type” might look different each time, but the spirit is the same. And until you confront that, you’ll keep dating versions of the same person in different bodies. “As a dog returns to ...